
During
my time at Corrymeela I conducted art workshops with young and old.
Workshops called 'Paper Lace Handkerchiefs of Hope'. I worked with
different groups by telling them about the creation of
The Linen Memorial,
which led to discussions on flax farming and the historic linen
industry in Northern Ireland. Then we created handkerchiefs made from
folded and cut-out paper and made wishes for a better future
together.
The 'wishes' were made with coloured
beads and feathers. For example, I worked with a group of mothers in a
weekly group facilitated by Mathilde Stevens at a primary school in
Belfast. Some of the wishes were straightforward, such as, 'I want to
stop smoking, for the benefit of my children.'
The paper
handkerchiefs are easier to handle than 'the chore' of learning how to
sew or embroider in chain stitch during a short workshop! These days,
sewing and ironing skills seem to be lost 'domestic arts'.
As
well as directing parents' groups, Mathilde is very skilled with
creative textile arts, so, she worked quickly, making intricate
'paper-lace' designs along the borders of the folded paper look
effortless! She would also add colourful additions, such as placing a
lovely sheet of crepe paper behind the final designs. Such craft
processes are ones that delight everyone; the process is akin to making
a 'Canadian' snowflake to cheerfully decorate a window
pane.
Also, during my time at Corrymeela, a great
group of rambunctious teenagers from Girls Model School, revelled in
creating their Lace Handkerchiefs. They attached their wishes to
balloons which rose up and into the rafters of the main house, near the
dining room.
In 2007 Corrymeela hosted
the Third European Ecumenical Assembly process (EEA3) Church and
Peace conference, coordinated by a staff member of boundless energy,
David Price. Conference attendees, including former Iraq hostage,
Norman Kember of the Christian Peacemaker Delegation, put their
signatures on a large 'paper-lace' handkerchief, in the name of "Peace"
for Northern Ireland's future.
Another C and
P attendee, a psychiatrist from Germany, sat with me for quite some
time in an small hallway area where I had displayed some of the linen,
embroidered handkerchiefs. At one point, he got very still; he had been
extremely moved by the linen handkerchiefs with the embroidered names.
His comments to me, as I remember them, were: "What you have done here
is very similar to my daily work with my clients, many of whom are
recovering from trauma, such as incest. You have created a safe
place.
My name is 'Helmut'. In my profession, I
have always hoped that, like my own name - as in 'the protective
helmet' - that, each day, I create a safe 'nest' where, little by
little, slowly, my clients feel that they can move towards healing." I
will never forget that conversation.
Also touching,
and yet not necessarily related to The Troubles or the memorial, was
being invited to sit with a support group for those suffering from
grief, a group that meets weekly at Corrymeela in the evenings. I felt
that the most I could do was greet those who were part of that group
with great respect, and listen carefully as a witness to their personal
stories. Out of some of thes experiences, this past year, I was moved
to obtain a qualification as a Funerary celebrant.

Lycia Trouton, DCA, MFA, BFA (Hons)
The
author is an artist/academic, a former public or community-based
artist, as well as a site-specific earthworks sculptor. She is the
child of a Belfast/Bangor couple who emigrated, when they were in their
late 30s, to Vancouver, Canada with Lycia (aged 3) and her sister Konia
(aged 5) in 1970.
Lycia's background includes 3
years spent living, as a young adult, in the divided city of
Detroit/suburban Detroit: Bloomfield Hills, which made her acutely
aware of the inequities of racial segregation/prejudice and reminded
her of the sectarianism of Belfast, and the fractured communities from
violence.
The Linen Memorial has been
created over a period of eight years, was the subject of a doctorate
thesis in creative art and has been shown at venues in the USA and
Australia to date. The embroidery and sewing is still in progress.